Makay and I have officially been married for an entire YEAR today! Where does the time go? It has been the best year of my life. Everybody says the first year is the hardest, but I disagree. This past year will never be remembered as the difficult one... it will be remembered as the time I found true companionship. The first year I woke up everyday to a beautiful face that I adored and many kiss that still make me melt. The first year I walked hand-in-hand with someone who would face every battle with me. The first year when my heart smiled as much as my lips did.
I have learned many things on this new journey of ours...
- Something I have come to understand in my mind but which is still difficult for me to apply is the fact that it is not always right and wrong. It is possible for two people to have two completely different opinions and each opinion can be right! One person doesn't have to be wrong; though, sometimes it would be much easier that way.
- Plainly stated: Boys and girls are different... in a lot of aspects... Pretty much everything I have come to understand can be sub categorized beneath this statement...
- The greatest and most life altering thing I have learned is something which is continually being taught to me... how to love. It is amazing. The capacity of love that one being can hold for another. The only thing that I can compare it to is light. It seems that love and light have the same effects. They each have the ability to instill safety, protection, and guidance. Life is dim--if not dark--without each. I often wonder why it is that love is learned in steps. I know we have all experienced the incomprehensible feeling that we couldn't possibly love someone or something more than we do at that moment. Then a year goes by and somehow that love--that you once felt couldn't get any greater--has had an exponential increase. It wasn't until I compared light and love that I understood this concept.
brighter and brighter until the perfect day."








